When you're dealing with people...

It's best to know what you're dealing with. Honestly, it helps. I came across an article that described a good amount of the people I dealt with in 2009 and it really made an impact on me. Knowledge always helps you separate yourself from other people's mess. It also helps you realize that it's not always you. Sometimes it really is OK to give yourself a dang break!! So, read this list about the signs of emotional immaturity. You may see glimmers of "friends", bosses, boyfriends, girlfriends, exes, parents, all types of people. It'll open up your mind and change the way you interact with people...

The Ultimate Melt The Sheets Playlist...thank me later...

I figured a good way to start 2010 is to invest in my own romantic karma. So, I bring to you The Ultimate Melt The Sheets Playlist. Disclaimer: this is a grown up collection of music that sets a mood, so if you're more into songs about poppin, droppin, smackin, and lyrics about body parts, this may not be for you.

This playlist if for couples who need a little bit of spark! Life has a way of killing the love in our lives. For those of you lucky enough to still have a bit, here's my gift to you! This is about snesuality, connection and intimacy without all of the obvious selections. I've added a little audio to give you an idea where it's going. So, open your mind, do a little leg work (BUY the music...if you can find it) and let me know how you like it!!